It’s poisonous and literally bad for your brains. It does no good.
Unfortunately kids folks don’t take the time to know you (at least not in the workplace). So how you’re perceived is what people use to paint their picture of you in their heads (i.e. YOUR BOSSES). Perception is reality kids, the quicker you learn this, the easier your life will be.
Kids never argue in front of others, whether that’s with your brother/sister or when you’re in a relationship. It puts your spouse down and really ultimately serves no purpose to argue in front of others. Handle your business behind closed doors in the privacy of your own home.
Everyone notices the little things in life. So whether that means picking up your friend at the airport or staying a little late to help the team finish something up, these little things go a long way in forging great bonds.
No one remains the same throughout their life, so you can’t expect people to always be the same. That applies to every relationship in life, everybody changes. So be accepting, nobody is perfect.
This quote says it all: Man. Because he sacrifices his health in order to make money. Then he sacrifices money to recuperate his health. And then he is so anxious about the future that he does not enjoy the present; the result being that he does not live in the present or the future; he lives as if he is never going to die, and then dies having never really lived.
This doesn’t mean to be a tyrant throughout all your social relationships in your life, but it does mean to always have a firm backbone and don’t be afraid to stick up for yourself. Nobody else will. If someone tries to manipulate you, don’t be afraid to respond firmly.
Before you know it, they’ll be gone and you’ll have regrets and then it will be too late. Tell your friends you care about them when they’re in front of you, you’ll never regret that.
Kids no easy way to say this, but when you’re competent people take advantage of you. And because you’re competent you’ll gladly take on more stuff to do. DO NOT DO THIS. Learn to say “No” early and often in your life. Before you know it, life will have passed you by and you will have done nothing for yourself.
This doesn’t mean be selfish, but this does mean sticking up for yourself and knowing when to put your foot down with people. If you don’t, you’ll be their servant for life.
Everyone enjoys the candy bowl and you’ll be treated better. It’s the furthest 10 dollars will go in buying you office goodwill. People be lovin kit-kats.